June 19th, 2009

Rising to the Occasion: Keynote Speaking Opportunity Presents Itself

I was asked to give the keynote graduation speech to an amazing group of young women. Teen mothers have fought an uphill battle to graduate this spring. For the entire week I have been battling writing the keynote address. I find myself wordless to help inspire these young women who instead, inspire me so. I searched for inspiration this week but found only condescending thoughts that seemed too absurd to throw at these strong souls.

Alas, as always, I have found inspiration in the woman who has always done so uniquely and elegantly, Maya Angelou. And so after a few readings of the following poem I am feeling enlightened to complete my speech. Here’s the poem. How can you not walk away feeling proud and strong after reading that?

You may write me down in history
With your bitter, twisted lies,
You may trod me in the very dirt
But still, like dust, I’ll rise. Does my sassiness upset you?
Why are you beset with gloom?
‘Cause I walk like I’ve got oil wells
Pumping in my living room.

Just like moons and like suns,
With the certainty of tides,
Just like hopes springing high,
Still I’ll rise.

Did you want to see me broken?
Bowed head and lowered eyes?
Shoulders falling down like teardrops.
Weakened by my soulful cries.

Does my haughtiness offend you?
Don’t you take it awful hard
‘Cause I laugh like I’ve got gold mines
Diggin’ in my own back yard.

You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I’ll rise.

Does my sexiness upset you?
Does it come as a surprise
That I dance like I’ve got diamonds
At the meeting of my thighs?

Out of the huts of history’s shame, I rise
Up from a past that’s rooted in pain, I rise
I’m a black ocean, leaping and wide,
Welling and swelling I bear in the tide.
Leaving behind nights of terror and fear, I rise
Into a daybreak that’s wondrously clear, I rise
Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave,
I am the dream and the hope of the slave.
I rise
I rise
I rise.

Maya Angelou

May 14th, 2009

Fearing Success? Is That Possible?

Freelance Writer's Life (cc Photo by Nep)

Freelance Writer's Life (cc Photo by Nep)

Okay, maybe I’m not out on the street pushing my goods like this dude, but I know I have found my true calling as a writer. The whole freelancing thing, however, is another story. I love the freedom of working at my own pace, choosing the topics I love and learning about things I may not have had a chance to know about. I am still skittish about the consistency of money which is crazy seeing as how I went quite a few years with no stream of income.

Every so I often I’ll get a sweet ongoing deal and here’s where my craziness sets in.  Soon after I’ll have another gig and the worry is for naught, kinda.  So, I’m wondering, does that fear of not having the next gig ever go away? I don’t think so. I don’t think it can or where would our drive come from?

Having been a stay-at-home mom who left a hefty paycheck as a professional counselor, I got use to just my hubby’s paycheck. We have gotten very use to going without. What I have done with my writing funds, which are becoming pretty darn hefty, is using them as the rainy day and fun money. I have found that this helps with the anxiety I get from not knowing how much the next set of assignments will bring in.

I am still so green and enjoy learning from those who have been out there for a while. Sometimes it can just seem to good to be true. I just was able to do a fun piece on Phoenix and I don’t know if it gets better than that. I know that sometimes I may fear success because then I know I’m in it for the long haul.  Just a rambling kinda day I guess. I have to go send out some queries now. Maybe I’ll find another assignment on Dengue Fever.

May 7th, 2009

The Niagra Needs Your Help

A fellow Etsy seller forwarded a blog post that is near and dear to her heart. It deals with budget cuts and historically significant piece of American history, Pennsylvania’s Flagship, the Niagra. Here’s the link to her post. I just love it when a group bands together.

May 5th, 2009

Dom DeLuise is Gone at the Young Age of 75

CC photo by Professor Mortis

CC photo by Professor Mortis

I am so sad right now. You know as celebrities get older their time here on Earth, like any normal human, is precious. There are some people that you just would have liked to live forever. Dom DeLuise was one of those people who I grew up with and just always thought would be around. I feel blessed to have laughed with so many of his films and am grateful my daughter also fell in love with his magical voice.

May 4th, 2009

Check Out the Eco-Cleaning Article on Chick Advisor

Can Mr. Clean and Natural Clean be together?

Can Mr. Clean and Natural Clean be together?

Eco Spring Cleaning is now live on chick advisor. You can learn how I clean my house the Earth friendly way. Go comment there or come back and comment here. I love learning about new methods if you have any to offer. ;)

Here’s the link.

Source

CC photo courtesy of elycefeliz

May 1st, 2009

Update on Suite 101, Yes, It Was the Right Choice!

cc photo courtesy of bionicteaching

cc photo courtesy of bionicteaching

When you take the plunge into freelancing, you know your survival hinges on the assignments you go out and get. There’s usually no automatic paycheck waiting for you at week’s end.

One of the the most nerve wracking parts of the writer’s life is sending out the query letters. Perhaps that idea is marvelous and would be the perfect fit for the chosen magazine, but it rests at the bottom of a stack of other great ideas. Sometimes your query is chosen and sometimes, well sometimes you just never here the fate of that query. It’s off to another magazine it goes.

When I first heard of Suite101 I was a bit critical. I had done some writing on Helium a while back and became discouraged by the writing I saw. No punctuation, grammatical atrocities and lack of paragraphs were just a few things that made me earn for the teacher’s red pen. When I read about Suite101 I thought it was much of the same. It’s definitely not.

Suite101 has an application process that is not so easy to plunge through. On message boards, I’ve read of some pretty distraught writers who could not get it. These were writers who had navigated the freelance field for years. I was extremely happy to get that acceptance email.

Now you will find neigh sayers who believe writers get treated unfairly at Suite101 because your paid on page views and ad revenue. Some are upset by Suite101 holding your work for one year. Some feel time is wasted on writing articles for the web, when that time should be spent sending out queries. I say, why not do it all?

After just three articles being published, I was approached this week by a magazine editor looking for a freelance piece. I have also been contacted by a few others about possible work. Now, I still plan on sending out those queries, but I would be insane not to enjoy the freedom coming from Suite101. Seriously, it’s a win-win for both writer and editor.  And still, I have my revenue building up and forming the foundation for some decent long-term cash flow. Who doesn’t like automatic payments?

If you’re a writer thinking about Suite101, I would give it a try. You might not make a fortune quickly, but you just might make connections that may have otherwise been missed.

April 16th, 2009

What if Your Email Goes Down, But You Don’t Find Out?

Rescued Gmail

If only I had those little birdies...

It’s really a horror story, what I’m about to tell. It’s pretty scary, so you might want to keep the lights on.

I have not been receiving my email for over a week, but didn’t know it. It may even be longer. I just am too sick to even think about it.

I guess when I transferred my blog to Wordpress and moved some stuff around, the MX got mixed up. So, for two of my domains, this one and Phoenix Neighborhood Blogger, I have not received email in weeks.

Now, before you question my lack of concern over not getting email, know that I forward my email accounts into my personal Gmail. So, I still was getting tons of mail, I just didn’t check to see who it was coming to.

It’s been fixed, but I’m thinking of all the job replies I’ve been sending and requests for resumes and clips that have gone out. I don’t even know whether or not to resend. I guess lesson learned, but that was one heck of a punishment. This ever happen to anyone else? Hope not, but I’d love to know I’m not alone.

(cc photo by anonymonk courtesy of Flickr)

April 15th, 2009

Fun at the Wildlife World Zoo and Aquarium in Phoenix

I just uploaded a great Suite101 article on the zoo and its great new aquarium. Here’s the link.

April 15th, 2009

Five Things to do at Papago Park

Did I catch your interest? Great! Here’s the link to my new Suite101 article.

April 15th, 2009

Demand Studios: a Fun Way to Make Money

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Every so often I would see a writer post about Demand Studios but would just add it to my things-to-do list when I saw the application process. I finally got to thinking, if it has a more extensive application process, then it’s probably more worth while. Turns out it is.

Now if you are looking for clips to bulk up your portfolio, this isn’t going to help. You are basically ghostwriting so you won’t get credit and probably won’t even see where your baby ends up.

However, if you like making quick cash for easy assignments then this definitely may be your cup of tea. I choose topics that I already know about and then simply have to find some supporting information. Recently, one topic was broken down into three  areas, so a little research and I had three assignments done.

As I’ve said before, I love doing research, so sometimes I’ll pick an interesting topic just for the learning aspect. So far, I have not only made some easy bank, I have come up with a handful of ideas to expand over on Suite101.

If you write for Demand Studios let me know what you think?

(CC photo by Suttonhoo courtesy of Flickr)